I always say that to gain an unfair advantage in life, you need to be willing to do what few others want to do.
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If you can identify those things and find a way to get excited about doing those things, itâs like unlocking a door to a secret room.
Many years of experimentation have shown me that doing hard things is the quickest way to realise your confidence and self-growth in all aspects.
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Here are some ideas:
Write a short book in a weekend.
Donât work for a week.
This is hard for workaholics but will give you needed rest and time to recalibrate. Youâll return twice as energised.
Go on a road trip by yourself.
Record a video.
I do these several times a week and have published over 350 youtube videos. I donât edit most of them, rarely feel like doing them, and usually have nothing prepared. This has benefitted my impromptu speaking skills and confidence like little else.
Lift weights and harden your physique.
Give a live talk.
Get on a podcast or interview someone.
Do the thing you fear.
Identify that thing you know you need to do. You know what it is. Go there.
Write an article that makes you nervous.
Purposefully choose stuff you would typically avoid sharing. Be willing to be upfront, vulnerable and honest. These often do better with engagement too.
Write a short fiction story and share it online.
Next, do this daily for a year.
Join a class, tour, or group you usually would not.
Learn a language.
Even if itâs 10 minutes per day. Even if you never use it in conversations, this activity will build your confidence, and itâs great for the mind and staving off dementia.
Aim for mastery.
Take whatever youâre doing up a level by changing your perception around WHY youâre doing it. Are you just doing it âbecause?â Or are you doing it to become a master? The latter is far more energising and will lead to far better results.
Become a group mentor.
Guide a group or cohort for a few weeks as a coach on a chosen topic that would help them. Start for free, then charge.
Quit TV and social media for a week.
Who said social media was a drug? Well, youâll know this was true when you try to quit.
Quit high dopamine junk.
This includes porn, caffeine and sugar for stretches as a form of reset or for good. Give your dopamine receptors a rest, and youâll be amazed at how much added resilience, energy and motivation you will bounce back with.
Go on a long hike or climb a mountain.
Make a hobby out of networking.
Approaching people you donât know to get to know them isnât easy for most people. What if you did it so much, in-person and online, that it became second nature? What would that do for your life?
Write daily.
No one is immune from writing as a worthwhile activity. I donât care if youâre an extrovert or âsuckâ at writing. Writing is a powerful layer addition to anyoneâs life. We live in the self-branding age, and writing is still one of the best ways to transmit your story and build your audience.
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Travel to a foreign country by yourself.
Take up wall or rock climbing.
Go to the cinema or restaurant alone.
If you can do this, youâll realise how much more freedom you have no longer being dependent on others to access and enjoy certain places.
Talk to a stranger or fine piece of ass in the street.
Start side hobby, even when you canât squeeze it in.
Add 5% to your daily work output.
Always ask: how can I add 5% more output to what Iâm doing.
This isnât about âbusyâ work. This is about doing more on the things that matter. Inevitably, this will require replacing a time-waster with something that aligns with your purpose.
Do more hard things.
Be astounded at how your life changes.
Now you wonât want to stop doing the hard stuff.
Onward to greatness.
Contributed by ALEX MATHERS
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