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Life can be a tough ride. It throws curveballs that test our mental strength and resilience. But hey, Iâm Lachlan Brown, the founder of Hack Spirit, and Iâm here to tell you that if youâve experienced certain things in life, youâre probably mentally stronger than the average person.
You see, these life experiences arenât just mere bumps in the road. Theyâre valuable lessons that shape us and make us stronger. They show us that we have the mental fortitude to overcome obstacles and come out on top.
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In this article, Iâll share with you eight such experiences. If youâve lived through these, give yourself a pat on the back. Youâre stronger than you think.
Letâs get started.
1) Youâve weathered the storm of loss
Life is a mixed bag of ups and downs. And sometimes, the downs include the heart-wrenching experience of loss.
Loss isnât just about death. It could be losing a job, a relationship, or even something as simple as a cherished possession. But hereâs the thing: experiencing loss and coming out the other side is a testament to your mental strength.
Why? Because it requires resilience and determination to pick up the pieces and move forward.
In the world of mindfulness, weâre often taught to view these losses not as setbacks, but as opportunities for growth and learning. Itâs about accepting the impermanence of life and understanding that every ending paves the way for a new beginning.
If youâve faced loss and found the strength to rise above it, youâre demonstrating a level of mental toughness that sets you apart from the average person.
Iâs not about what happens to us, but how we respond to it that defines our strength.
2) Youâve endured failure and emerged stronger
Failure. Itâs a word many of us fear. But let me tell you a little secret: itâs through failure that we often find our true strength.
I remember when I first started Hack Spirit, there were countless times when things didnât go as planned. Yet, every failure was a stepping stone towards success. Yes, it was tough, but it also taught me the value of perseverance.
As Pema ChĂśdrĂśn, a renowned Buddhist nun, once said, âFail better means you begin to have the ability to hold the rawness of vulnerability in your heart.â
Failure doesnât mean youâre weak or incapable. Quite the opposite, in fact. It means youâre brave enough to take risks and resilient enough to bounce back when things donât work out.
3) Youâve faced your fears head-on
Fear. Itâs one of the most primal human emotions. It can be paralyzing, keeping us trapped in our comfort zones and preventing us from reaching our true potential.
But guess what? Facing your fears, no matter how daunting, is one of the most empowering experiences you can have.
Buddhist wisdom teaches us that fear serves as a mirror, reflecting the areas of our lives that require attention and growth. Confronting our fears is an essential part of the path to enlightenment.
If youâve confronted your fears, if youâve looked them in the eye and said âIâm not backing down,â then youâve displayed an incredible amount of mental strength. Itâs not easy to step outside our comfort zones and face the unknown. But doing so leads to invaluable personal growth and resilience.
Itâs through acknowledging and confronting our fears that we find freedom. In the words of Buddha, âThe whole secret of existence is to have no fear.â
4) Youâve cultivated mindfulness
Mindfulness. Itâs a term that gets thrown around a lot these days. But truly understanding and practicing mindfulness is a deeply transformative experience.
Mindfulness is about being fully present in each moment, without judgment. Itâs about observing our thoughts and feelings as they arise, without getting swept away by them.
If youâve managed to cultivate mindfulness in your life, then you have shown an exceptional level of mental strength. Itâs not easy to sit with our thoughts and feelings, especially the uncomfortable ones.
But this practice allows us to understand ourselves better and respond to lifeâs challenges in a more balanced, calm manner.
As mindfulness expert Jon Kabat-Zinn said, âMindfulness is a way of befriending ourselves and our experience.â And that, my friend, takes real strength.
5) Youâve embraced the concept of non-attachment
Non-attachment is a core principle in Buddhism. Itâs about understanding the transient nature of life and not clinging to people, things, or outcomes.
Iâll admit, when I first encountered the idea of non-attachment, it was a struggle to fully grasp it. I mean, isnât it natural to care deeply about our loved ones, our ambitions, and our possessions?
But as I delved deeper into Buddhist teachings for my book, âHidden Secrets of Buddhism: How To Live With Maximum Impact and Minimum Egoâ, I realized non-attachment isnât about indifference or lack of care. Itâs about embracing change and not letting our happiness be dictated by external circumstances.
If youâve understood and embodied this concept in your life, youâve shown a remarkable level of mental strength. Itâs not easy to let go of our attachments in a world that constantly encourages us to want more.
6) Youâve practiced self-compassion
Self-compassion. Itâs something we often overlook. Weâre quick to extend kindness and understanding to others, but when it comes to ourselves, we can be our own harshest critics.
Buddhist and mindfulness teachings emphasize the importance of self-compassion. Itâs about acknowledging our own suffering, not being overly critical or harsh with ourselves, and understanding that everyone makes mistakes.
If youâve managed to cultivate self-compassion in your life, youâre displaying a profound level of mental strength. Itâs not easy to break free from the cycle of self-judgment and criticism, especially in a society that often values perfection over progress.
Yet, practicing self-compassion allows us to grow and learn from our mistakes without being held back by fear of failure. As renowned mindfulness expert Dr. Kristin Neff says, âWith self-compassion, we give ourselves the same kindness and care weâd give to a good friend.â
After all, being able to pick ourselves up with kindness and understanding is a true mark of strength.
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7) Youâve learned to let go of control
Letâs face it, we all like to be in control. It gives us a sense of security and predictability. But life, as we all know, is anything but predictable.
Learning to let go of control, especially over things we cannot change, is a challenging yet rewarding journey. It requires a great deal of mental strength to accept that we canât control everything around us.
Buddhist teachings tell us that the root of suffering is attachment, and this includes our attachment to control. When we learn to let go, we free ourselves from the immense stress and anxiety that comes with trying to micromanage every aspect of our lives.
Thich Nhat Hanh, a renowned Buddhist monk, once said, âLetting go gives us freedom, and freedom is the only condition for happiness.â
If youâve managed to surrender control and embrace the uncertainty of life, then youâre exhibiting a level of mental strength thatâs far beyond the norm.
Strength isnât just about holding on; itâs also about knowing when to let go.
8) Youâve cultivated the art of doing nothing
In our hustle and bustle world, the idea of doing nothing can seem counterintuitive. Weâre constantly encouraged to be productive, to fill every moment of our days with tasks and activities. But hereâs a little secret: thereâs immense power in doing nothing.
Mindfulness teaches us the value of stillness. It encourages us to pause, to breathe, and to simply be in the present moment. In this quiet state, we can observe our thoughts and feelings without judgment or distraction.
If youâve managed to cultivate this art of doing nothing in your life, youâre displaying a unique form of mental strength. It takes courage and discipline to resist the urge to constantly âdoâ and instead just âbeâ.
As mindfulness expert Jon Kabat-Zinn says, âThe little things? The little moments? They arenât little.â So if youâve mastered the art of doing nothing and found peace in those quiet moments, youâre certainly mentally stronger than the average person. After all, itâs in the stillness that we find our true strength.
Conclusion
These eight experiences are powerful indicators of mental strength. If youâve experienced any of these, take a moment to appreciate your resilience. Youâre tougher than you think!
Remember that mental strength isnât something weâre born with. Itâs a quality we cultivate over time through our life experiences and our responses to them.
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Contributed by Lachlan Brown
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