These 4 life skills will make you insanely successful
life skills to fill you with motivation
There are times in life when you feel down, pressured, stressed due to difficult times, situations, and circumstances in your life, coping through depression or anxiety.
We all do at some point in our lives. Mostly feeling short for motivation and enthusiasm.
Mostly turning to motivational speakers or famous personalities who achieved great achievement in life, listening to their ‘mantras’ for success, depending upon person to person. Whatever suits you that could get you back on our tracks.
So, here I would like to tell you worked for me that I certainly believe will also work for you. These are the rules that I follow in my life and come out of depression, motivating and inspiring me from within.
Here we go!
1: Love yourself
“To love others you must first love yourself.”
— Leo Buscaglia
I think people today are most concerned about what others might think of them, afraid of being criticized, feeling insecure and vulnerable that you don’t have to be. If you ask me I believe that every human is different, special, and unique in its way and it’s a very beautiful thing. everyone has their strengths and weaknesses. You can be good at one thing that you’re friends are not. That is your strength.
Most importantly, Love yourself, feel confident in yourself, pursue your passion, look fabulous, do what you feel like doing. Be yourself. At the end of the day, if you love what you look at in the mirror. Then nobody can stop you. It’s your journey. You are your own master. Director of your own life. Don’t let criticism come in your way.
2 Surround yourself with positivity
“Show me your friends and I’ll show you your future.” Mark Ambrose
Who you spend most of the time with, is who you will become. It’s important that you surround yourself with people, be it your friends, family, or work colleagues who fill you with positivity.
People’s vibes, mindsets, and beliefs will become your own, so only surround those who you will help you to take your life to a new level.
Always keep the people who love you, support you, and are always there for you near you. They are going to be there for you in every step of your life and will never leave you whenever you are in need and in difficult times. So even if it is difficult and you are angry or tired, don’t hurt them.
Always decide with a calm and relaxed mindset because the hasty decision can lead to regrets and if you have regret you cannot grow. You will tend to regret the past decision. So it’s better to handle the situation with a calm mind.
3 Know your Timezone
“It is better to wait until you get the right thing, at the right time and in the right place; than to race for the wrong thing, at the wrong time and in the wrong place, for it yields nothing but disgrace.”
― Gift Gugu Mona
New York is three hours ahead of California, but that does mean California is slow. It’s the timezone.
Someone who graduated from college at 22 but has to wait five years before securing a job.
One became a CEO at 25 but died at 50, the other started a company at 50 and live happily til 90. it all depends upon timing.
No one is late or early, but running at their own pace in their own time zone.
some people amaze make you compare yourself.
You tend to look down on yourself. But the thing that you overlook is, he was at the right place at the right time. That’s the timezone for you.
We have to wait for that perfect time and opportunity t knock. No doubt efforts are important but timing matters too. Everyone is in their own time zone. There could be some people that are ahead of you, don’t envy them and some will be behind you, don’t mock or ridicule them.
Life is all about waiting for that right moment to react.
Your dreams and visions are all valid. Give yourself some time and do the best you can.
4 Keep learning
“Develop a passion for learning. If you do, you will never cease to grow.” — Anthony J. D’Angelo
Some people find it difficult to learn after we have finished our formal education
We are living in a rapidly changing world. what we doing now is, soon going to be replaced by automation and AI and if we want to continue growth and development, we have to make sure to learn new skills faster than automation.
On a personal level, it is because I want to be the best version of myself, and the only way to do that is to learn and experience new things. But to learn anything new requires a lot of self-discipline to sit down and pick up skills that will help you in life. The best ones to do at the moment are coding and AI since they are going to be the future.
A lot of things, once you realize, the key to living and understanding is studying and gaining knowledge, it actually becomes quite empowering. This is so true. The only way that we can improve as humans and as a species is if to keep on developing and deepening our understanding of the world that we live in.
So, Learn new things and skills. Don’t be scared to learn, experiment, and experience new things.
It explores the huge potential in you. Opening door to new trend and opportunity help you grow not only personally as well professionally. Learn new trends to supply for new demands and need. Learn from your mistakes and strive to do better and shine as an impeccable individual and in the end, success will kiss your feet.
CONTRIBUTED BY Twinkle bajaj
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